September 27, 2017
Is it a feeling?
Is it a thing?
Where does it come from?
So many questions and we each have so many views. What we know is that it doesn’t die. It lives. It is the fabric of reality, the glue between everything, the very pulse of the Universe.
It heals, it brings all the very best experiences in life.
If you are in a relationship now and it is not working, be totally honest with yourself first. Until you get fully in your truth, which by the way is always nudging at you, you can’t allow what needs to happen.
Maybe you are someone who loves too much at the expense of your well-being. This will produce needy behaviours and will probably make your partner very uncomfortable. This isn’t Love but Need. It becomes a bottomless pit of giving for you with massive expectation of receiving it and really nothing cures it until you get to the bottom of why you are feeling this way. It isn’t anything to do with your partner but about your past, your parenting, your life experience. Please do go get help.
Maybe you love and adore your partner but your mix of chemistry just isn’t working. Maybe you don’t, and never have had that certain something that for me is critical in the vitality of the relationship.
You may have fundamental differences on sex, money, lifestyle and no matter how much you discuss things, you both just have a different path. To me this is Life calling you both in different directions, and NO MATTER what you do, you just cannot mess with this one. (I have been there several times.)
You are maybe just playing safe and thinking of yourself and your needs in the relationship but you are causing your partner pain and heartache because you are not being honest to either of you.