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Process To Make 2018 Your Best Year

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Part 1: A few words on Attitude.*

It is your choice how you view the world.

Attitude is either a settled way of thinking or feeling about something, or truculent or uncooperative behaviour.

Some people wake up angry with everything and carry that stress on through the day.

Others are calmer, and generally, have a better time of it. It really pays to decide what your particular attitude is as it can transform your life. For instance, a negative attitude gets you nowhere, whereas a positive attitude can get you anywhere. That is the first thing to remember if you wish to make 2018 your best year.

Experiences help and so does listening to those of others. You can then apply the wisdom gleaned to your own circumstances.

How to Make 2018 Your Best Year

Here are 10 suggestions to help you decide your perspective.


On December 1st 1862, President Abraham Lincoln delivered his annual message to Congress.

The country was in the middle of a civil war. He concluded:

Disenthrall. It’s an interesting word. To enthrall means to capture someone’s attention. This could be good or bad, depending on what exactly is attracting your undivided attention.

To disenthrall means to discharge, free, emancipate, liberate, loosen, release, unbind, uncage, unchain, or unfetter.

So if you are obsessed with perpetually doing or seeing things in a certain way, you may first need to disenthrall yourself to stand any chance of changing your attitude. Only then will you have a chance of seeing other possibilities and thereby make 2018 your best year.


Remember this to make 2018 your best year.

There is no point in claiming to have a certain attitude, when your actions either fail to prove it, or worse, contradict it.

Thinking is one thing.

Doing is quite another. Walk your talk to make 2018 your best year.

Gina Miller, the businesswoman who initiated a court case against the British government challenging its authority to implement Brexit, said: “What’s the point in having a conscience if you never use it?”

The popular blogger and author Mark Manson points this out in his unsubtly named book The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck: “Who you are is defined by what you are willing to struggle for.”

We can rarely think our way into a new way of acting. We need to act our way into a new way of thinking.

In other words, the action proves the thought. Without action, thought merely remains a concept, and as such doesn’t technically exist. Take a stand and make 2018 your best year.


Resilience in the face of adversity is a vital trait. Life is not a smooth road. In fact, if it were, most of us would be bored.

As noted by Max McKeown in his book #Now, those confronted by extremely tricky obstacles (such as cancer) are said to have a feisty spirit of survivorship. It is important to develop that spirit so as to make 2018 your best year.

It is a laughing-is-winning approach and is something that can be adopted by anyone, including those facing life-threatening circumstances.

This transformative ability to make good things happen through a positive attitude is a quality you can discover in yourself.

It’s all about taking control of your attitude to life: one person’s adversity is another’s inspiration. Remember that to make 2018 your best year.


So said Sherlock Holmes in The Abominable Bride.

It’s okay to be afraid. In fact, it’s often beneficial. Animals have a clearly demarcated sense of flight or fight driven by fright, which is a sudden intense feeling of fear.

So being scared can be extremely beneficial for survival or progress, not to the extent that you are petrified into non-action, but so you can fully appreciate the possibilities that may follow from your actions.

Harness the fear to anticipate what to do next. The flight could allow you to fight another day.

A fight should only be considered if you are convinced you can win. Confront the initial fear and turn it into a wise attitude to make 2018 your best year.


Student pilots are taught early in their training what to do if they get into trouble:

  • Climb: get yourself out of danger immediately by increasing altitude.
  • Confess: talk to the control tower and explain what the problem is.
  • Comply: do exactly what you are told by the air traffic controller.

Climb, confess, comply is a useful attitude when dealing with awkward circumstances. So next time you are out of your depth, admit it immediately, ask for help quickly, and then do exactly what it takes to resolve the situation. That way you will be in control and will thus make 2018 your best year.

Don’t dig a deeper hole or paint yourself into a corner. Climb, confess, comply.


Do your parents really understand what you do for a living?

In his memoirs, Gig: The Life and Times of a Rock-Star Fantasist, British poet Simon Armitage recalls returning to his hometown. There, in the bargain bin of a second-hand bookshop, he found a copy of one of his own books.

It was inscribed in the front, in his own handwriting, ‘To Mum and Dad’.

Despite their son pouring his best efforts into having a book published, his parents obviously didn’t consider it worth keeping, which just goes to show that however much you care about something, other people probably don’t. In fact, they might not even be interested.

One person’s passion may be another’s ambivalence. It is up to you to decide what you feel strongly about, but don’t expect anyone else to care. Chase your dreams and make 2018 your best year.


According to Tim Gallwey, author of The Inner Game of Tennis, performance is ability minus interference.

Ability means you can get the job done skillfully, but we all know that even the best have bad days.

Being worried or distracted debilitates your ability to concentrate and do things well. So on a personal level, if you want to do something well, remove all the distractions you can, so you can get on and make 2018 your best year.

Bosses and whole companies can learn from this too. If an individual, or even an entire department, are to do something well, then they need to be allowed to get on with it. Don’t interfere. It reduces effective performance.


Pessimists look smart because they see problems everywhere. They even like it when things go wrong because it proves they were right to be pessimistic.

Optimists look stupid because they think everything can be done. It is easy for cynics to laugh at their apparently blind enthusiasm.

Possibilists can strike a balance between the two. They ask what is the best possible thing we could do here?

In geography circles, possibilism proposes that culture and human agency determine human behaviour, rather than the environment (as environmental determinists would have us believe).

Possibilists believe they can find an intelligent way through – staying positive whilst remaining pragmatic. Most things work out fine, so let’s start by assuming that they will. Develop this ideology to make 2018 your best year.


In his book Essentialism, Greg McKeown espouses the disciplined pursuit of less. The non-essentialist is all things to all people, pursues everything in an undisciplined way, and lives a life that does not satisfy.

He or she thinks that almost everything is essential. The essentialist does less but better, creating a life that really matters.

He or she thinks that almost everything is non-essential.

If it isn’t a clear yes, then it’s a clear no. Instead of doing many things half-heartedly, do one or two things properly.

It takes the same amount of energy but is much more fulfilling. Concentrate only on what is essential. Chew on that thought to make 2018 your best year,


We are useless at doing nothing, but when we rush into things, we usually cause trouble for ourselves, and for others.

In his book An Optimist’s Tour of the Future, Mark Stevenson relates a story told by Tim Langley, director of charcoal manufacturer Carbonscape.

An elderly German businessman and his wife hired his boat to go looking for dolphins. There were none to be found, but he kept pushing Tim to keep looking.

Eventually after two hours, Tim asked: “Do you want to continue looking, or do you just want to sit and be?” Such an idea had never occurred to the German.

In order to determine a decent attitude, we need to pause and think properly. Sometimes we just need to sit and be.

In order to make 2018 your best year, these few points can be thought upon.

Kevin Duncan

Kevin Duncan

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